bobk wrote:Do you think you did anything wrong or not?
If you had stopped right there, then we might be making some progress. But you went on to justify your actions with faulty logic. Let's take a look...Tad Eareckson wrote:OF COURSE I DO, BOB!!!
We know that not everything illegal is wrong. So you're using that doubt to throw doubt on your situation. Faulty.Tad Eareckson wrote:I mean it's illegal, right? And if it weren't wrong it wouldn't be illegal, right?
You're setting up a faulty comparison between kids being molested and being run over by Hummers. How about if we'd rather have neither? Again, you're using faulty logic.Tad Eareckson wrote:And, in fact, it's SO illegal that the legal - not to mention social - consequences are literally about forty times worse than they are for someone who gets drunk and runs a Hummer at fifty miles an hour over a twelve year old boy and his bicycle.
This is a mostly true statement, but you've cast it in a mocking tone to make it seem untrue. It's skillfully done, but faulty with respect to assessing the damage of your actions.Tad Eareckson wrote:And that's the way it SHOULD and MUST BE. Because in the process of a male child predator taking advantage of a gay twelve year old boy's unshaped innocence for his own pleasures he inevitably condemns his victim to a life of shame and self doubt or confusion - possibly BOTH.
Another false choice. I suspect most 12 year old boys would prefer neither death nor a life of shame, self doubt, and confusion. More faulty logic from you Tad.Tad Eareckson wrote:Ask any gay twelve year old boy... Would you rather:
- have an intimate relationship with an Oscar Wilde, Errol Flynn, James Dean and be inevitably condemned to a life of shame and self doubt or confusion, possibly both; or
- be thrown under a speeding Hummer?
This is more mocking and twisting to divert attention from the fact that you took advantage of a 12 year old boy for your own pleasure regardless of, and inconsiderate of, the consequences to that boy. You need to face that and really really feel sorry about that if you're going to make any progress. So far, you've just posted a list of excuses and justifications for your abuse. You can't face what you've done and so you try justify it. Sorry, that's more faulty logic.Tad Eareckson wrote:Well, true, a few of them might respond "A" but at that age they're not really capable of making good decisions in the interests of their safety and well-being so a responsible adult - such as yourself or any rated tug pilot - can check "B" for them.
And if a gay former twelve year old boy at age thirty-something were to recall an "A" option as a positive aspect of his life we would hafta discount that data point because he is - by definition - hopelessly damaged and confused and thus incapable of providing an acceptable response.
And because he does not view his relationship as totally and unambiguously wrong he might HIMSELF be a danger to people of varying ages and thus would not be allowed to post on The Bob Show - 'cause nowadays ya just can't be too careful, right?
Statistically, there's much less chance of doing damage in that situation. That doesn't make it right either, but since you're using more faulty logic (if SHE did it, then it MUST be OK), then in the context of that faulty logic, her crime is less severe than yours. Sorry, you fail the 5th grade logic test on this one as well.Tad Eareckson wrote:Now a Mary Kay Letourneau situation... Not such a BFD - a lot less shame and self doubt or confusion, right?
Tad, I'm sorry to have to bring all this up. You know that I gave you the option to peacefully coexist. It was you who forced this discussion with your need to "go to war" with anyone who disagrees with you. Having said that, this topic is instructive because it shows how faulty your logic can be. It shows how you use faulty rhetoric to twist reality to suit you. Unfortunately, you do it very skillfully, and that's what makes you dangerous on a hang gliding forum. That's the real message that I'm trying to make with this discussion. I'm trying to show everyone that you are capable of justifying anything if it preserves your ego ... regardless of how faulty or damaging or dangerous it might be to other pilots and 12 year old boys.